dance to one's tune

/dˈans tʊ wˈɒnz tjˈuːn/

/dˈæns tʊ wˈʌnz tˈuːn/

[phrase]

to dance to one's tune

[PHRASE]

to do things as desired or required by someone else

What is the origin of the idiom "dance to one's tune" and when to use it?

The exact origin of the idiom "dance to one's tune" is unclear, but it is believed to have its roots in the world of music and dance. The phrase metaphorically compares the act of obediently following someone's wishes to the synchronized movements of a dance performed in response to a specific tune or melody. It has been in use since at least the 16th century and has since become a well-established idiom in the English language. It is commonly used in interpersonal relationships, workplace dynamics, or any scenario involving power dynamics.

Examples

1. It would be a mistake to dance to their tune.

2. It's an important reminder that just because you can slam a bunch of atoms together doesn’t mean you can make them and their byproducts all dance to your tune and exit out the back like a rocket flame.

3. You can't make me dance to your tune.

4. By Donald Trump and dance to his tune rather than to speak up